IB/rxe: Add support for IB_CQ_REPORT_MISSED_EVENTS

IB/rxe: Add support for IB_CQ_REPORT_MISSED_EVENTS

Peek at the CQ after arming it so that we can return a hint.
This avoids missed completions due to a race between posting
CQEs and arming the CQ.

For example, CM teardown waits on MAD requests to complete with
ib_cq_poll_work(). Without this fix, the last completion might be
left on the CQ, hanging the kthread doing the teardown.

The console backtraces look like this:

[ 4199.911284] Call Trace:
[ 4199.911401]  [<ffffffff9657fe95>] schedule+0x35/0x80
[ 4199.911556]  [<ffffffff965830df>] schedule_timeout+0x22f/0x2c0
[ 4199.911727]  [<ffffffff9657f7a8>] ? __schedule+0x368/0xa20
[ 4199.911891]  [<ffffffff96580903>] wait_for_completion+0xb3/0x130
[ 4199.912067]  [<ffffffff960a17e0>] ? wake_up_q+0x70/0x70
[ 4199.912243]  [<ffffffffc074a06d>] cm_destroy_id+0x13d/0x450 [ib_cm]
[ 4199.912422]  [<ffffffff961615d5>] ? printk+0x57/0x73
[ 4199.912578]  [<ffffffffc074a390>] ib_destroy_cm_id+0x10/0x20 [ib_cm]
[ 4199.912759]  [<ffffffffc076098c>] rdma_destroy_id+0xac/0x340 [rdma_cm]
[ 4199.912941]  [<ffffffffc076f2cc>] 0xffffffffc076f2cc

Signed-off-by: Andrew Boyer <andrew.boyer@dell.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>