sunrpc/xprtrdma: clean up workqueue usage

sunrpc/xprtrdma: clean up workqueue usage

* Create and use svc_rdma_wq instead of using the system workqueue and
  flush_scheduled_work().  This workqueue is necessary to serve as
  flushing domain for rdma->sc_work which is used to destroy itself
  and thus can't be flushed explicitly.

* Replace cancel_delayed_work() + flush_scheduled_work() with
  cancel_delayed_work_sync().

* Implement synchronous connect in xprt_rdma_connect() using
  flush_delayed_work() on the rdma_connect work instead of using
  flush_scheduled_work().

This is to prepare for the deprecation and removal of
flush_scheduled_work().

Signed-off-by: Tejun Heo <tj@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: J. Bruce Fields <bfields@redhat.com>