drm/atomic-helpers: Properly avoid full modeset dance

drm/atomic-helpers: Properly avoid full modeset dance

Legacy setCrtc has a nice fastpath for just updating the frontbuffer
when the output routing doesn't change. Which I of course tried to
keep working, except that I fumbled the job: The helpers correctly
compute ->mode_changed, CRTC updates get correctly skipped but
connector functions are called unconditionally.

Fix this.

v2: For the disable sided connector->state->crtc might be NULL.
Instead look at the old_connector_state->crtc, but still use the new
crtc state for that old crtc. Reported by Thierry.

Reported-and-Tested-by: Gustavo Padovan <gustavo.padovan@collabora.co.uk>
Reviewed-by: Gustavo Padovan <gustavo.padovan@collabora.co.uk> (v1)
Cc: Thierry Reding <thierry.reding@gmail.com>
Cc: Gustavo Padovan <gustavo.padovan@collabora.co.uk> (v1)
Signed-off-by: Daniel Vetter <daniel.vetter@intel.com>