md-cluster: Call update_raid_disks() if another node --grow's raid_disks

md-cluster: Call update_raid_disks() if another node --grow's raid_disks

To incorporate --grow feature executed on one node, other nodes need to
acknowledge the change in number of disks. Call update_raid_disks()
to update internal data structures.

This leads to call check_reshape() -> md_allow_write() -> md_update_sb(),
this results in a deadlock. This is done so it can safely allocate memory
(which might trigger writeback which might write to raid1). This is
not required for md with a bitmap.

In the clustered case, we don't perform md_update_sb() in md_allow_write(),
but in do_md_run(). Also we disable safemode for clustered mode.

mddev->recovery_cp need not be set in check_sb_changes() because this
is required only when a node reads another node's bitmap. mddev->recovery_cp
(which is read from sb->resync_offset), is set only if mddev is in_sync.
Since we disabled safemode, in_sync is set to zero.
In a clustered environment, the MD may not be in sync because another
node could be writing to it. So make sure that in_sync is not set in
case of clustered node in __md_stop_writes().

Signed-off-by: Goldwyn Rodrigues <rgoldwyn@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: NeilBrown <neilb@suse.com>